It’s that time of year, a fresh start and time to clean up your life and clear things out!. It can be a lot of pressure, and yet somehow all the insta influencers seems to have their lives and homes totally in order. We at Spruce Up are all about finding joy and feeling good in your home – even if it’s not Instagram-able all the time. We celebrate and help real people, in real homes create surroundings that are an authentic reflection of you and your family. It is not easy to stay on top of clutter and mess in our homes, and there has a been a lot of chat about the KonMari method.
Marie Kondo, author of “The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up: The Japanese Art of Decluttering and Organizing” has a new show on Netflix called “Tidying Up.”The show is about being mindful in your home and keeping only the things that you feel “spark joy” for you.
We feel the same way here at Spruce Up! Bring on the joy please!
In the first episode, a lovely young family goes through the journey with her to clear out their home. Everything Marie says to them makes total sense. Bags and bags of items leave the house, items are thanked on the way out the door. Marie is adorable and brilliant. The house ends up clear and clean and the young couple ended up in tears of joy. It was amazing. After watching the show, however, I have been wondering something…How would a family (without Marie’s help) with two small kids and jobs find a whole month (how long it took on the show) to do this incredibly huge process of touching each item, greeting it, waiting for the spark of joy and then purging it?
Here are some practical, & realistic tips for learning to love your space and live in a “KonMari-like” tidy home. You can do these baby steps even with small children, busy work lives, and no extra time on your hands.
Bonus: no stress required.
- Adopt the “New Minus Two” rule. Every time you bring something new into your home, put 2 similar things in a bag for donation. This is a very easy way to keep the balance in your home, prevent the clutter in the first place! Keep a laundry bin or bag in your closet as a holding place for items to donate. I usually keep mine there a month to see if anyone has come looking for the item I have put in there. I drop the items off at the Goodwill after it’s full. I call this the “new minus two” rule
- Pick one room at a time. In the spirit of completing your overall decluttering mission, pick one room per weekend to de-clutter. Select low-stress weekends that work for you and your family. It’s ok if clearing out clutter takes a while because it took a while to get there! It’s a hard process, and being kind to yourself is the best way to take steps toward loving your home and the ( messy ) people in it.
- Make “tidying up” a daily habit. Every evening, after dinner and before bed, take 10 mins ( set a timer ) and have everyone go through the common areas and take their things to their rooms, recycle bin or garbage. You will be surprised what 10 min of daily attention does to a space! People of all ages can do this. Get the kids involved, put on a timer and some music and make it fun!
- Downsize your drawers. Use a smaller closet or smaller dresser for your clothes. Just like the small plate concept for eating less, this method makes you very mindful about what you have in your clothing collection. Use the “new minus two” rule that I mentioned in #1. If you bring a new piece in to the closet, donate two old ones!
- Find organizational items that bring you joy. Really look around at the areas that have the most clutter in your home and instead of feeling ashamed about it, accept it (and your families quirks) and make a plan to focus on adding a new organizational system to that area. An example of this would be a storage bench, coat tree, new hooks, coffee table with drawers, baskets for toys etc.
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